Monday, September 22, 2008

I'm annoyed too (Updated)

OK...I guess this is the week to vent. I am totally passive-aggressive when it comes to some things....but I need to get it out so I can get over it...bear with me! If you call me and leave a message and I don't get back to you right away...I am busy! I don't have the time I would like to devote to our conversation. Please DO NOT call me back within 24 hours of leaving the first message and just assume I am ignoring you, or that I don't like you anymore. It makes me want to not call you back at all. I am not a person that digs the phone. I CAN get on the phone and talk for hours, but it isn't my first priority. Get over your insecurities and just let me call you back when I can. I'm done...I had to get that out. This applies to a couple of people in my life but not everyone (Not you CB,or you Allison...I promise!). I wish I could just say this to them without it hurting their feelings, but I know no matter how nice I am when I say it, it won't come across the way I want it to. Thanks for listening...again, you guys are all great! *OK I re-read this post and had to update a bit. CB and Allison do not leave a message, then call back less than 24 hours later to make sure I got that message. The purpose of mentioning those two, is because they are two of my "out-of-town" friends that call more often than others. ALSO....if you leave me a message with an emergent situation, I will call you back as soon as I can, and not when I have more time to chat. I don't ignore those types of call. Just had to clarify! (Cuz I know all of you thought I was a horrible person to not return a call in a timely manner if it is an emergency)


Katie said...

Feel free to vent away. It's good to get it out!

Vicki said...

Alrighty then! ;-)

Allison and Ben said...

I think venting is a healthy form of expression. I tend to do it sometimes and it makes other people upset, and usually I still just don't care. So vent away. Hey just so you know I did not think you were talking about me. The only reason I might call back the next day is because I would not have remembered if I called the day before. Mommy brain.

Anonymous said...

WOW! Feel better? I just called the once. I get you though sista..

C to the always B